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so when are you going to start preparing meals for you and son?




We do have a freezer full of meat, venison and beef. I pulled out a venison roast last night to thaw, will put it in the slow cooker tomorrow before I leave for work. So I guess this is the week. Apples are in season, we all love home made apple pies, so will make a few of them.

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he may find something else or he may realize that he was happy but just didn't like a few things...




Well this will be the last thing from his list that I can work on for now. Making lunches was another didn't do for him, but he's not here for that. A few years ago he was driving one and half hours each way from a job and I did tell him I would make his lunches. I never did though. S3 wasn't very old at the time. I was tired as was H because he was getting up early every day. He could have stayed at a motel during the week, but he insisted on driving back and forth every day just so he could be with us. It is something H does like to remind me of and I do feel bad not doing it for him. But that was the past.

Last night when H was here I felt like I was getting sucked into his mood, which I didn't like and inside I was wishing he would leave. Do you ever feel like you're getting sucked into your H's mood and if you do what do you do to counteract the feeling? I started focusing on S3 because it's easy to change his moods and he's always happy.

Cathy