Forget why she feels so entitled... its about them... their crisis is their crisis in their mind, and to them all they can focus on is them... its called "being selfish".

I think you need to quit discussing your finances or what she wants trav. I think you need to get a divorce lawyer and tell her to put all enquiries thru him... and yes you need one.

I also think you need to realise your still a great person and a great man and theres a good chance you might find someone else from all this and come out of it glad in the end. you might as well decide right now not to get fleeced in the process. stop questioning in your mind how she can be so mean. she just can be thats all. she might be in crisis she might be depressed that doesnt change the fact you need to protect yourself right now and PLEASE dont talk about money with her anymore ever again... its off limits.

look I think in your sitch you really need a divorce lawyer pls find the retainer and get one, and lets hash out a custody arrangement, you want your boys, better start thinking of fighting for them, bc I think FROM WHAT you have said, shes thinking of "financial" terms. not in terms of whats best for the kiddies.

i think you deserve more. its the OM who is making her so crap and so nasty and so into money but dont dismiss it. you deserve more... you are a good man a good dad and a good prospect, just because it feels exhausting right now to think of finding someone new... you will find that person.

in what ive read... I think if you do not protect yourself you might be so strapped and so used you are beyond a joke. protect yourself first think about your R later. you and the kids first, her later

When you're down to nothing, God is up to something.