Although I don't think I have replied to you before, I have following your sitch for quite some time.
Your suspicions concerning Facebook and W using it as a way to spy on you is eerie. I found out last year that my W was on there as well through some mutual friends who encouraged me to go on there as well. When I signed up for my account, the first thing I did was to block W so she could not easily see anything related to me. Although she does regularly use the computer I normally use at home, I periodically change my password so it keeps her guessing.
A couple of weeks ago I had a friend request show up on FB from a friend of W's who I haven't talked to in quite a number of years. I haven't acted on the friend request but I will likely ignore it.
It does appear that your W is trying to find out intel from your friends that she has contacted on FB. Now what are you going to do with this newfound knowledge?
Me 52, STBEX 52 D 17, S 12 M 20 years Em Sep since 2002, Phys Sep Sept 2009
