SOMETHING WOMEN CAN RELY ON WITH THEIR HUSBAND, WHEN HAVING AN AFFAIR
the h wont want to tell anyone, he'll be ashamed
keep in your mind at all times that affairs thrive in the dark. put aside your masculinity and TELL. but do it without vindiction, or wait until you can.
Answering questions is very hard to do for anyone having an affair even if they deny its happening. lets face it, if you deny it, then HOW are you gonna explain that R if it ever comes to be... everyone would know you were a liar
so always try to put aside any feelings of shame or "this is our biz" and very much firmly assert to your wife you intend to enlist family help
I think men avoid this bc they are afraid of being asked particularly by other men, why they are putting up with it. but your man enough to cope with that question right
this isnt an attack on you as a man and nor are you weak for fighting for what IS YOURS and your FAMILY. say so!
When you're down to nothing, God is up to something.
