You're right. I wasn't thinking I'd cook him a meal, I'd ask him out to dinner. With the way he's constantly bringing up bf's all the time and I did turn it around on him this way, it would be more for shock value than anything else. I'd like to see the look on his face and his reaction more than anything. He'd more than likely say no, but it might shut him up about the bf thing..no?
The cooking meals now would be something for me and son, more routine in his life. This summer we were on the go so much we'd eat at all different times. So now that fall is here and the days are getting shorter, I won't feel like I need to be out there doing something all the time. So meals a couple of times a week would be nice and if H wants to eat fine, if not fine. H is so damn stubborn sometimes. If he's here and I ask him if he wants something to eat, he'll say no. If I just make it and give it to him he'll eat it. Why is he so intent on refusing anything and saying no all the time, he most always changes his mind. And this has been ongoing since I met him, so it's not something new either.