It's Complicated! Part 6

[Dawn of Hope]

Hi, Glam, I've been wondering where you were. I'm very glad to see an update from you. Nice that you got that bonus!

I hesitate to say anything, but feel a compulsion to call it as I see it...it sounds to me like your H is feeling pressured by your asking him about moving home, and about spending the night, and so on. I know those are things that you long to have happen, but I really think you need to stop asking about that stuff. It's like you keep digging up the bulbs every hour to see if they have sprouted yet, if that makes sense. I think that the more often you ask him things like that, the longer you will have to bite your tongue and NOT ask him anything once you learn to leave it alone, before his heart softens and he turns things around. I really think these questions of yours are just making things worse for you.

That is just my opinion, and may be totally off base. If not, I imagine others will come along to verify. Regardless, I do wish you the very best in everything, and hope he straightens himself out soon! I will keep checking on you...

Peace,
Dawn