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I'm a little slow sometimes, I'm blonde, so when you say "mystery man" you mean H right? The way I was intepreting it was that H was the guy I had my eye on.

Confused Cathy




I assume that was kaws intent yes...but in telling h that there is a "mystery man" that you've got your eye on and would like to invite over for dinner...

I'm not certain that setting up such an extravagant dinner for h is such a good idea...it may end up with you setting yourself up for something...

perhaps a better way might be to start with "family dinners" when you know h is comming have dinner prepared and eat as a family...

there are plenty of nice family meals that look like a lot of effort but are really simple...

that way it is less of a possible persuit and more of a "hey I'm cooking because I want my son and his dad and myself to eat and be healthy not just to romantasize you back to me" but of course you wouldn't say that.

LL