Quote: a reason the set up of saying "i've got my eye on someone and wonder how he'd feel about comming over for dinner" before you let him know you would like for him to come over for dinner...makes you look a bit like a hypocrite..unless of course you were planning on sending son off somewhere else when you cook dinner for the mystery man.
I'm a little slow sometimes, I'm blonde, so when you say "mystery man" you mean H right? The way I was intepreting it was that H was the guy I had my eye on.