Quote: In some ways I think he wants me to have a BF so that he can move on...
Let me throw a different slant on the "BF" thing. He is coming to grips with the fact the "new" you is here to stay. Now he is beginning to wonder why? However, he hasn't accepted these changes can be made in context of remaining in M. It has to be an outside source that has changed you, hence - the "BF" theory.
It does seem to be working at drawing his attention about being vague with "BF" inquiries, but don't how far it would get you, if he starts to think the "new" you is because of a new Bo.
What would you think H would do, if you would say something like, "I have my eye on someone, but I don't know if he would accept if I asked him over for diner." Kinda make him squirm a little bit, then invite him for diner?
