Your point = clear. You are asking - which is it? You forget to wear the rings or the bit about shocking folks?
Just putting into my words what I think your issue with the rings is. In other words, which one is it - forgetting to wear the rings or something else?
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08