Just called me to ASK if I still wanted him to watch son tomorrow. We discussed/decided this last night....but this is H. This is what used to drive me nuts and test my patience. Had to tell him something three of four times because I always change my mind!
He then asked me if I wanted him to get son tonight and take him to OW's house. I couldn't believe he said that. In a very calm voice, I told him I didn't think it was a good idea, but if you do then you have a lot of talking to do with son. I forgot to remind him that he agreed to not take him there and why would he even say that to me!!! He knows that he can take son over there once he's decided what he's staying there. OW's probably on him again about this! He was just in a ugly negative mood and trying to hurt me or get a reaction out of me. We were talking about son at one point and he said son was retarded, just like you. I said that wasn't very nice.
I think he's afraid I'll get a bf before he decides what he's doing. He thinks I'll take him back anytime or when he decides he wants to return. Well I'm afraid it might not be that easy. I don't want our old relationship, I want to build a new one.
