IWITW - So sad to hear how things are turning out for you. I could have written the same paragraghs about me working on our R and her "going along for the ride". My W is definitely doing that right now. I feel very bad for you and don't know that there is anything I can say to help brighten the picture for you. If it's any consolation, the work (and it is PLENTY) you have done on yourself is sure to help you through whatever is to come. You should be proud of the effort you have put in, it's a lot more than most people do and I can't help but feel there is honor in the effort, despite the lack of desired outcome.
Also know that you have helped others, me to no little degree, and in that, there is also something to be proud of. Your help is truly appreciated by all here.
Hang in there my friend, and remember, it ain't over 'til it's over.
Last edited by Heartbroken20; 05/27/0902:38 AM.
Me 47 W 44 D16, D13 T 23yrs M 20yrs WAW/MLC + Male EA "BFF from H.S." = Misery
