Your point = clear. You are asking - which is it? You forget to wear the rings or the bit about shocking folks?

Here is what I read in her email: I feel responsible and accountable to the folks around me whom I know are vigilant of us...I'm still having difficulty making moves for MYSELF b/c I'm tied to what others will think and feel...I don't want to let anyone down ~~~ again.

She is carrying a burden. Heavier b/c of her prior choices but really, that's all of us, isn't it. I wonder what difference it would make if she were loved through that instead of having to salute the bullsh!t flag.


Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



Happily ever after is one day at a time.