Your point = clear. You are asking - which is it? You forget to wear the rings or the bit about shocking folks?
Here is what I read in her email: I feel responsible and accountable to the folks around me whom I know are vigilant of us...I'm still having difficulty making moves for MYSELF b/c I'm tied to what others will think and feel...I don't want to let anyone down ~~~ again.
She is carrying a burden. Heavier b/c of her prior choices but really, that's all of us, isn't it. I wonder what difference it would make if she were loved through that instead of having to salute the bullsh!t flag.
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08