Quote: Anyone have any thoughts/insights or read between the lines on any of this?
I never like to read to much between the lines because anything could mean anything...
perhaps he's looking for you to have a bf because then he'd feel better about what he's doing (less guilt for him)
but then it also sounds like he's a tad jelouse that you may indeed have a bf.
even though it's not nice to play games..and it certainly can't be the only thing that "wakes him up"...I'd just continue as you are doing...the mystery is enticing to him...
no point in questioning his intentions too much...when he has more of an idea of what they are..you will be among the first to know.