However, for the record, I think she's full of SH&T when she says that she "subconsciously forgot" to put her rings on. It was more the defiance/rebelliousness we talked about above, I think.
So will you tell her you think she is a liar? B/c of course you know what she is thinking and why she does what she does. You are always mindful of 'don't believe what they say, only what they do'. That would be even while they are NOT engaged in an A. Same approach.
Again, she has almost no shot with you. You seem still in the A environment...even though she is not. When does she get to come out from under it?
Greek,
Not sure what I did to get a bug up your butt, but I'm giving my opinion. I've known the woman for over 25 years, and when you're with someone that long you begin to learn to smell their b.s. She also told me recently that "I need you to call me on my b.s. sometimes," fyi.
I am not in the A environment with her. We are no longer in transparency, for example. We are in the "the marriage is in trouble, and we need to both be working at it" environment.
