Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
However, for the record, I think she's full of SH&T when she says that she "subconsciously forgot" to put her rings on. It was more the defiance/rebelliousness we talked about above, I think.


So will you tell her you think she is a liar? B/c of course you know what she is thinking and why she does what she does. You are always mindful of 'don't believe what they say, only what they do'. That would be even while they are NOT engaged in an A. Same approach.

Again, she has almost no shot with you. You seem still in the A environment...even though she is not. When does she get to come out from under it?


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