Newbie - first post

[The Wifey]

MNT-Take in what the friend says. Make note of it, but try not to fall apart. You already know he walked, you already know he thinks he's done. This is only information. Yes - I know it might hurt. But if you can take it in, and not contact him or scream at him like you most likely want to it would be better for you.

Definitely contact a L. Find out your rights and how to protect yourself. There are some legal protections for spouses. Start a journal and keep track of things like his truck, the Jared's purchase, etc.

As for that Jared's statement, you are going to have to search your conscience. Mine would be tempted to get rid of the statement so he wouldn't know to pay it. But, that is just me being a biotch.