Sorry I haven't been posting, wanted to stop by and say hi.
See things are progressing? Can't really say much about the finances other than to be sure what you need and what is fair between you and your H. Most people aren't concerned with fair and its up to you and how you do things in life to decide here. It seems that everything is a compromise.
Retirement is a big thing that often gets overlooked as important and misunderstood as being undervalued in the present. ARe there other options for H or do you really care? If you feel that it is his problem to pay bills then put it back on him.
How are you doing otherwise? How is this affecting you? I know from reading some of your posts that you work hard. Does it help?
