My WAW and I separated

[The Wifey]

It is promising that she wondered about "us." Hold off on contact for right now. When you do have contact you do not have to be stand-offish. The DB way is a guide, not a rule.

You have much to learn yet and so you should just try to focus. Be patient and caring, non-confrontational, and do everything you can not to try to convince her of anything right now.

She doesn't think she wants to work on the M Right NOW. That doesn't mean your D is set in stone.

This will take time. As I said before. We all hope that our WAW's will "wake up" and realize that we are their soul-mates. Think back to when you met. What was it about each other that generated interest? What made you like each other?

It is entirely possible that she could be depressed. Even so, this would not explain everything nor would it convince her that this is not the way to go.

You still have time. You really do. It isn't over yet.