I tend to agree with stillloveshim. Everyone's sitch is different, but I share her philosophy. Show him you are self-confident, have GAL, but as she states, don't act desperate. I am finding that by being positive and self-confident in my H's presence really takes the edge off and allows us both to relax and have a good time. Non-pressure calls/emails a couple of times per week seems to keep the machine running. Your mileage may vary.
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