I know these things occur, I just cannot wrap my mind around it.
It would be so much easier for me to tell my son all the terrible things his father has done. It is far more difficult to keep it all to myself. But, I feel it is extremely important for my son to maintain a loving relationship with his father at this time. I do not want the responsibility of breaking that bond.
I just dont understand parents who knowingly hurt their children, who cause them pain and add to their heartache at this difficult time. This is between the two adults. I choose to behave in a way that causes the least amount of destruction to my son. His father, by his actions, has caused enough disruption to his life. I will not add to it.
