"wonder if I'm plain not attractive anymore"....well did a woman hit on you this week or not? (no, not the prostitute...) but guess you forgot that. And then some guy I can only ASSUME YOU ASKED, gave you "tips" on what you need to improve in your looks and as I said, I assume he's an image consultant so it's his job to find your flaws and tweak you into looking your best. If he was some guy who said all this crap to you UNinvited, then you sure take a lot of crap from strangers. I live in an area WITH image consultants and they do play a valuable role. But instead of taking their advice and using it positively, you are sliding down your negative spiral again.
If there was some validity to the "image consultant's" words, take his advice and work on your looks and FEEL BETTER about yourself. If it's all BS, then ignore it!
None of us has seen you in person. But if you start being a SVON again, trust me when I say --that IS SOOO UNATTRACTIVE....lose the negativity. Now.
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