man, I've fallen off a few wagons before, but this on runs you over after you hit the ground.
Alright, back to serious.
Not that I'm questioning your input stuck, but would going dark really be in her best interests right now? She answered the question point blank, would she take him back still, yes.
So, that said, and I as I have questioned myself the same as my D is right around the corner, I know there is no way I could possibly 'go dark' now, not with the fate of everything looming. Although I, much like Jen have a lot of issues with how badly my W treated me (some of which I deserved) I am praying that in these final few days for the seemingly unthinkable and my W comes back. I have been searching high and low on these forums all day and found a few stories, some successful, some not, but when all hope seemed lost and D was inevidable, the impossible happened and the WAS asked for a second chance within a week to 2 weeks of the D being final.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11