Remember the first time you mentioned this I was shocked? My red flags went up immediately with that one. I cant believe that woman but my perception of things wont do you any good so you better listen closely to what 25years has to say because people ruled by anger will go off limits at any moment. You probably feel that no judge or court will buy something like that but please dont leave anything to luck. I suppose you do keep log of her actions and names of people witnessing her crazy bahavior. Maybe the fact she is going nuts in front of people can be used for you in the long term.
You know I have no clue about your system so my advice is worth nothing... I am sorry for all the insanity you have to live. Take care, I wish you all the strength of the world. xxx K
