One more question. When you said your H changed into the person you wanted...did you tell him what was wrong with your R? Did you open up and specifically tell him what your needs were?
The closest thing my W told me was that she just didn't feel "in love and attracted to me anymore". And this is after a year and a half of this craziness. I think the closest thing she told me was that she held little resentments against me that she didn't tell me about at the time. When I asked her for an example of on of the resentments, she said like when I would forget to take out the garbage on some nights. I can't believe someone would D just because of a few missed garbage days.
Kind of hard when you're just shooting in the dark.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
