Thanks for checking on me. I don't know what's going to happen with my W's A. My gut says it will die an ugly death, but I think it could take a year or two (or longer!). I am very dark now, mostly to help me fully detach. I just don't want to see or talk to my W right now.
I had been doing exactly as you said, no pressure, light fun interaction, a little harmless flirting. I didn't see that it made my W feel guilty or remorseful at all. It had the effect of casting me as her surrogate boyfriend while she pines for the OM she can't be with.
