I know it is tough and it is easy to get down, but don't feel like your have blowen everyhting. Things play out over many months, not just one day. This stuff is all so complex and confusing for everyone, your W, you, just like for all of us and our own cases. I know exactly how you feel, and what I have been trying to do is do that weird duality of 1) accepting the facts and seeing that she is not going to come back to me and 2) having faith that down the road I can make changes in myself to make her doubt her decision. Good luck, and don't forget there are others here like you who hope for you too.


H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs
WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09
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