Don't you think that this might finally make his wife miss him, and feel what it would be like without AFWAW in her life?
Yeah, maybe. Was that what he was shooting for? It sounded like the hurt boy that wasn't going to play anymore. He said it wasn't going dark...it was no contact ever again (of course that's just reactive...if she was banging at his down begging for him to take her back I doubt his "no contact" policy would hold). At this point, with a wife that's cheating (or probably is), I'd probably try to achieve the I don't want you back attitude without resorting to no contact. If that's what it takes for him to get there...then maybe he should go dark for a month. He could always start looking at the other fish in the sea (without fishing). When your mind is on other options, it's easy to detach....and she'll feel the detachment.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
