Oh, after reading your posts again, Tundra777, I know who you are! I hope things are going ok for you. It's been a long rough road, as you know, but things are better. I hope they keep going this way... I'll fill you in next time we meet.
Good luck on your sitch. Keep on doing the DB stuff!
Maybe I will join you on that 5k...
Me: 46 W: 46 M: 9.5 yrs D4, D9 D filed by her 11/3/08 Agrees to try rec at mediation 1/28/09 Says she still wants D in counseling 3/25/09 W and I back in DB counseling (!) 8/20/09 3rd Bomb 9/2/09