Hope everyone had a wonderful Memorial weekend. I absolutely enjoyed mine. Spent the weekend galing galing galing upstate NY with my girlfriend and her daughter. We had a good time, did tons of stuff.. exercised, shopped, boatride on the lake, and walked, dinners. What fun.
So update on... since we exchanged text messages on Saturday he called and left a message saying that he needs to get his bank card that was mailed to him. I didn't repond since I'm taking my break. He called my mother and she told him I was out of town. Must have shocked him. And then this morning he called. I didn't answer at first and then I called back. I had prepared what I was going to say. I called back and asked have you moved, he said no. I hanged up. He call back, I didn't answer. Then I called back and said I am reclaiming my proper title wife or nothing. He said listen he just wants to get the keys to fix our van. I asked again have you moved. He said no I haven't so I hanged up the phone again. And that was it. We really have nothing to talk about.
So need some info. I know I need to take some legal steps to get H to own his debt and to make a formal legal agreement. I can't affford to get a D right now and quick frankly I don't want to get a D, but I want to make a statement that H cannot just walk away from his legal obligations and pay when he feels like. Are there any other legal options other than D? Can I talk him to court and not D court so have a judge make him aware of his obligations? Thoughts and ideas please.
