Hey future.... I've been on vacation--very much needed. How are things now? In terms of the A, I agree with the others....it will burn "hot and fast" and just implode....let it. In the meantime, maybe don't go dark....keep in touch with her as often as you can without being annoying, but make sure you definitely TAKE THE PRESSURE off. I think letting her see you and interact with you enough that she feels guilty and remorseful....I don't see that as a bad thing at all!! Let her see how great you are because you are a great guy. No more fights...not more questions, just light--no brainer interaction, no stress. I'm working on that as hard as I can right now, easier said than done, but I bet you can!
