LL,

Usually our conversation goes like this. H says so what are your plans for the week? If I have stuff going I'll tell him if I don't, I'll say so. If I don't have any plans, it is then his decision to come to see son on what night. I guess I was okay with it the whole time, I just sometimes get resentful that he can come and go as he pleases and has no fulltime resonsibilities to son.

H made a stupid comment to son3 last night "we don't like S19" to a three year old he says this. I said don't say that..H is such a baby. H is just mad becuase he can't control S19. S19 is coming over tonight to spend time with his little brother. I didn't tell H about it either.

Cathy