Quote: So you think I shouldn't tell him what my plans are because he always does ask.
if he asks tell, but only answer the question asked...ie..where are you going..."out to dinner"...who are you going with or who will be there..
you don't have to act like you are hiding something but you don't have to give more info than is asked for directly.
also...if you don't have a problem with the visiting arraingment that h currently has for son then there is no need to change it...I only suggested you try to set a schedule because it seemed like you were looking for h to be with son and thinking that he should wich would lead you to ask for him or call him....if there was a set schedule you would not need to do that you would "know" in advance when h would be spending time with son. perhaps I needed the schedule because I don't work and there is no way that I could be here all day every day with two little kids h comming at his own discretion...would only add fuel to my fire.
