The adventure continues--the saga goes on

[AFWAW]

Again, what is the motivation behind "No more contact ever!"? Does that serve the daughter that you have with this woman? Or is it just your way of dealing with hurt? Honestly, it just seems like weakness, and it's not a good example to your daughter. If you are strong enough to never see or talk to her again, then you certainly should be strong enough not to give a rip about her and just not worry about whether you see her, don't see her, or what she's doing? Get your life separated from hers, financially and emotionally, and forge ahead.

My motivation is dealing w/ the hurt and removing her from my life as she is choosing not to be a part of it. She has been constantly trying to control my actions even after moving out of our home. I'm seperated financially and working on the emotional part. I guess I'm looking for ways to further separate myself emotionally and based on a post I read from Fighting Fit in the infidelity forum this seemed like a good option.