(sigh) though I agree with Kerry, the lawyer in me makes me paranoid. Be so careful. That "he slept with kids 5 times" freaks me out big time. I practiced criminal law years ago, but had 300 cases and specialized in child sex offenders. OF COURSE you're not one of them BUT of the 7 or 8 truly innocent clients I defended, guess what their "crimes" were? Yes, every one of my truly, factually/morally innocent clients who were wrongly convicted of crimes, were accused of things like this and they were ALL from ex w's or ex MIL's...
Be careful my friend, don't put ANYTHING PAST HER...and don't assume a social worker or "family services" will necessarily believe you. Sometime when you feel like getting really depressed, read up on the Mcmartin cases wherein some innocent day care workers were arrested and convicted of sex crimes based on the weakest evidence and most suggestive social worker's "interviews" ever seen. Though the cases were finally overturned on appeal AND many states have changed their approaches to those types of cases based on the court's rulings, those defendants lives were ruined and years were stolen from them.
Forget about the sleeping with, for now. And don't have unwitnessed sleep overs I guess, and Do start taking your own pictures and logs of her behavior (not b/c you want to use them against her but b/c you want to show her IF NEED BE, that you are not powerless here).
She's feeling threatened and cornered. You're a doctor and she knows you won't starve. In her mind, you'll "Find some bimbo" that will believe in you AND she might be "out on the streets" or have her "Children stolen from her" by you, the unsavory father of the year, are the thief. Wait, I'm sorry. I mean SATAN...
Please write that one down. If calling you Satan doesn't count as "parental alienation", even in NYC, then what does? (someday there'll be a joke there but it's too painful and close to home right now and I get that....).
Sorry Frank, sooo sorry.
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