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I think I dream about and start devising how to just make this all better. My kids need their dad...and again, I wondered, shouldn't someone point out the suffering he is causing them?


La Moja: Pregunta para ti, por favor:

If, during his wanderings, H got run over by an 18-wheeler -- squashed like a tortoise -- in some near-forgotten exit town on the edge of the desert like Blythe or Ludlow, would this sentence still be true?
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My kids need their dad.


And if that sentence were still true, would this sentence also be true?
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I...start devising how to just make this all better.


Does the fact that H has not (thus far) been squashed like a tortoise near Ludlow make either of those sentences less true?

If the answer is, "no," what are you waiting for?