hmmm, ok a review of things after re-reading the thread really sparks my curiosity.
I didn't think much of it until now, but OM always gives me this smug look and makes it a point to hang around when he's not needed (read as welcomed). Firiday night he gave this weird blank look, and yesterday morning my car is in an empty parking lot and yet he pulled up several hundred feet away and made W walk. Then wouldn't even look in my direction as I gave W the kids bags and waved bye to S10 who hopped in OM's car without even saying good-bye to me.
That coupled with she appeared sober and in good spirit.
Now add in the ability to actually speak without getting into a fight, her comments of how D "isn't what she wants", she says she doesn't want me reduced to a part-time parent, really wants to be friends, and the list goes on.
Lastly and what got me thinking of it is the whole weight thing, she lost a tremendous amount of weight of well that has rapidly returned.
It all has to mean something, but what?
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11