i know what you mean, because that is a real hang up of mine. I tend to dwell on things and pick them apart, and this eventually does drive me nuts. I have to remind myself that its over and one with and dwelling on it won't change anything, only to make me sad and angry all over again.
Im mad at my H for putting me through all of it, these emotion seem to really take hold of me. You don't know how you will ever get passed it, and I know we all will, but its time that is a killer, the pain does slowly go away, but I don't ever think completely.
If you were to tell me 18 years ago that I would be going through this, I would have said, "I'd leave his butt at the door" but how things change...
Hang in there my friend.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
