More than anything I want to keep my integrity. I spent the whole weekend with no R talk and H, of course, no R talk on his end. Actually no movement whatsoever on his end after he dropped bomb on 5/16/09. It was suggested I move to the MLC site and that probably is a good start but I am hesitant with H having no OW. Reading a couple of MLC posts and H is not mean to me and does not tell me he does not love me; but, he does seem to by cycling his emotions. I really want to tell him I think he is in MLC and I am going to act/treat him accordingly by staying out of the way and asking for nothing. I'll just try and live my life but it is so, so hard living and working together.
Is there an appropriate time to talk R even if H does not want to; or, is this a steadfast rule?
Thanks, M 42 Y.O. H 41 Y.O. Married 16 years Bomb 5/16/09 Still Here
