So stop sharing negative history, you can't change any of it. What I hear you saying you want is a better now. That is where you can lead. Show her what forgiveness is. Give her the true gift of compassion, love and trust because it is good for you. You will see the changes you need when you let all the negative shared history go. Stop waiting for her to change. Take charge Hoss. You can handle it. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
