Thank you for the website - I read some and have responded to her and she has returned my e-mail.
I thought H would be leaving as he said his mind was made up a week ago; but, he is still here and that seems to fit some of the MLC behavior.
I will go to the MLC posts and probably post there.
I survived the long weekend together all weekend with no talk of R. Man that was so difficult, today I just want to scream! I've been asking myself about having the stomach to remain on the rollercoaster and while I do I feel like I would like to tell H what I think is happening to him; but I would imagine H would not want to accept this...
Thanks again,
M 42 y.o. H 41 y.o. Married 16 years Bomb dropped 5/15/09 Still here