Okay I'm responding to my own post which I seem to do a lot of lately. And I really didn't feel all that much anger and the anger has gone for now. Of course I'm going to practice with my bow tonight and put his picture up on my target....

I'm okay now about the party, I think. Has anyone had anything similar happen to them? Now I know why he was mean to me yesterday, he felt guilty and kept bringing up things from the past-not cooking dinner for him, taking Son to McDonald's and not cooking for son, blah, blah, blah...which is getting old I might add. Does anyone here know who came up with the rule that a woman has to cook the meals? H doesn't know either, but he knows the rule.

It's his life, screw it up. I refuse to be kept down by H. It's been five months since He left, he's been having a R with her seven months, as far as I can tell. I'm really not picturing a future for us if he doesn't get rid of OW in the near future.

Cathy