d-day coming soon - help !

[misshim]

Well saturday was H's b-day. D4 got him a cake that said happy birthday daddy, and card and some t-shirts. He could barely say thank you to us. He acted really nervous and had to leave. I just thought it was because he was in a hurry to go "out" for his birthday.

My neighbor did see him at our local bar that night. H was sitting all alone at the bar. I don't get it, unless he was being flooded with memories at our house and he had to leave. But to sit all alone at the bar was very strange to hear. He has alot of friends, guess it's just strange that he wasn't going out with them on his birthday.

We didn't hear much from him on sunday. On monday (memorial day) he texted me wanting to come over. I said sure. He was in such a good mood it scared me. I just don't get it, he even played ball with our D4. He never would have done that. We had such good laughs. We almost get along better now than we ever during our marriage. I just don't get it.

I need to call the lawyer this week to touch base before the final D-day. I hate to call her but I know I have to.