Ok..I have questions...and I see some good in the last posts...
so..I get the emotional thing you are going through right now..i really do..GAL will help with that...you just have to believe that it will...
the car episodes...referred to as 1, 2, and 3...lol..I only read one as life and death(seat belt)..I can see why you would say what you said..it is a safety issue...Can you see where your husband might take offense to what you said to him..
Men hate to be called out..in public in front of their kids..whatever..most men hate that..driving is another issue..molst men like to think they can navigate where they want and it becomes an issue when someone trys to tell them where to/how to go...
don't sweat the small stuff....it will make things easier..just my .02