I find I must come back to deliver more 2x4s..or go up to 4x4s. Again, what is the motivation behind "No more contact ever!"? Does that serve the daughter that you have with this woman? Or is it just your way of dealing with hurt? Honestly, it just seems like weakness, and it's not a good example to your daughter. If you are strong enough to never see or talk to her again, then you certainly should be strong enough not to give a rip about her and just not worry about whether you see her, don't see her, or what she's doing? Get your life separated from hers, financially and emotionally, and forge ahead.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
