One last effort

[dday101798]

Hi jenn,

I'm pretty much in the same boat, my D will be 'final' in 2 weeks, if not signed sooner.

I too had a really big crash last week and am currently rebounding from.

I can only comment on two things you said:

1- You can not just let him go (drop him) just like that and move on, sorry I thought I could do the same with my W, didn't work and that's the crash I experienced last week, I lied to myself and said I was "over her and done and moving on happily". Now I realize, it's one finger at a time in the letting go process.

2- Yes, a piece of you is missing and will forever be should things not turn out as we all hope our situations would, that's just the way it is.