Thank you for the support. I think I have improved in looking at my relationship with my children. I have prioritised them rather than not see them on a gym night like tonight for instance when I have said I would give them dinner tonight instead, this is a big 180 for me.
She sent me a text earlier saying we have our own lives to lead, she wants to re-build her future and do things for herself. I guess I just need to ignore this sort of text as it deflates me and I wonder if I am wasting my time trying to reconcile as she clearly sees no reason to get back together. She also sent my sister a letter saying she hopes her and her family have a happy life together.
It looks to me as my W has already moved on and I feel really awful knowing this is what she has decided and is moving on with her life.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
