Gyps, you are great. I make my living reading people. I think I do a pretty good job.....including with my ex wife. I knew something was up the day it happened...so what am i fearing exactly? I do not fear anything...I do know what I want and do not want however. I also kno where this may go and I am not going there....so maybe I stink a little, that is why they invented deodorant.
On the golf front, I do not know where you are getting your "instruction". I can tell you that it is extremely important to think your way around a golf course. The only time you do not think is those 5 seconds when you are executing your shot.
By the way gyps, i am always thinking.....but you are right.....sometimes too much!