I thought you weren't planning to hang around when he got there???? what happend with that??
Quote: I wonder of "things being complicated" means he wants to uncomplicate them which is what I should have asked him????
let me ask you this...does he inititate any of the "intimacy" now??? or does he just accept your advances?
if you are the one inititating it then I'd suggest you STOP!
the next oportunity you have to discuss a visiting schedule DO SO!!
that way you can and should LEAVE or have him pick son up (an do your best not to complain about ow..simply ask that he not expose him to her) go live your life and let him figure his out on his own.
he wont know what it is he's missing until you stop giving it to him.
