INN
the pain is extreme for the first 3-6 months but It does ease up
the most important thing for you is to find a way to get thru it sucessfully
therapy is a must or spiritual couseling
church or religion helps
if you have a friend who will listen and not judge you that helps too
any support groups in your area that may help
alanon is all over the world and the program is similar to db as far as detaching snd letting go og toxic people(alcoholic or not)

as for you H, he is confused
probably in replay and running
how old is he? and you?
their behavior makes little sense so it is impoissible to figure it out
In the end, you will see the total destruction of his life and it will be clearer to you, his crises
for now just slow down
take care of you
let him go
you will find peace
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow